I hope this is in the right place, A question about dating.

Hi, first i'm sorry if this is in the wrong place, i couldn't decide which help place to put it, and it's sorta advice so i went with here.
First, when do you usually let your kids start dating?
Second, this may sound stupid, not sure, but when you have your kid have a girlfriend or boyfriend, then what? I mean, would i have any responsibilities to the other child, do i need to get on and roleplay or something? I would like to add that for one of my kids, i think it will fit her personality great, but wasn't sure if i can just pick a kid, call them a couple and great there we go, or what to do after that. Thanks for the help guys.
I think that was it. Thanks for any advice!
Holly

Hollyluvsbabies wrote:

Hi, first i'm sorry if this is in the wrong place, i couldn't decide which help place to put it, and it's sorta advice so i went with here.
First, when do you usually let your kids start dating?
Second, this may sound stupid, not sure, but when you have your kid have a girlfriend or boyfriend, then what? I mean, would i have any responsibilities to the other child, do i need to get on and roleplay or something? I would like to add that for one of my kids, i think it will fit her personality great, but wasn't sure if i can just pick a kid, call them a couple and great there we go, or what to do after that. Thanks for the help guys.
I think that was it. Thanks for any advice!
Holly

Well, I'll tell you about what I do.

I roleplay them rarely. My biggest girl got a boyfriend in LE (she's now UE) and they talked through the wall for a while. (silly things)
And then "went on a date" and the bf's dad made a photo of them. And... that's it.

This doesn't concern dating but I also roleplay with same girl with a best friend she has. And I'm lucky that the other girl's mom likes roleplaying so she replies fast enough.

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I say LE is old enough for a special friend and UE for a silly boycrush/bf or gf
It all depends on what you want and finding the right kid with a parent that will respond. It's hard. I haven't found the "right girl" for my boys and I've been looking for a long time. (not every day but occasionally) So I gave up. Maybe for the next level.

goodluck!

Ok cool. Thanks for responding. I wasn't sure and thought i would stupid for asking, but really just wanted the relationship just for looks, you know, to say she has a boyfriend, probably just because i'm single and don't like it so i thought my kid should have better lol.
So, yeah, i guess i'll just have to be specific and tell the other person when i'm looking that that's all i want? Anyone think that will be ok?
Thanks all, Holly

yeah, just do that.